One realization I had watching this video is that Matt and I may be going a bit overboard with our encouragement of Olivia. Before she was even born, we made a conscious decision that we really wanted to praise and reward her in order to build her self-confidence. Matt's parents really did this with him - to this day, I think they honestly believe every thing he does is amazing and every joke he tells is hilarious. In fact, when we first started dating it was a great source of enjoyment for me to make fun of him about this. It reminds me of this Seinfeld clip (the whole thing is great - but I'm really talking about 1:48 in).
I enjoy kidding him, but I really do think its sweet and endearing. However, we may be taking that to an extreme. Perhaps every poopy diaper doesn't deserve clapping and "yay-ing"? Maybe we shouldn't tell her she's "amazing" after she eats?
So....maybe we'll tone it down a bit. Its tough though, because at this stage we are truly amazed by every little laugh, smile, coo and noise that she makes and you'd be hard-pressed to convince either of us that she's not perfect! ;)
I've been thinking about you this week. I hope it was an easy transition for everyone. :)
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