Pardon the non-Olivia post, but I just wanted to take a minute to gush about my sweet daddy who just retired from an amazing 33 year career with ExxonMobil. Long before the phrase “work-life balance” was a part of my vocabulary, my dad was showing my sisters and me the balancing act every day. He would drive 45 minutes to and from work, put in a grueling day at the office, and then come home and jump into helping with dinner, homework, and extra-curricular activities. He was a chauffeur, a teacher, a counselor, an arbitrator, and, to this day, our biggest fan. When I graduated from law school, my parents hosted a small dinner party for me and some of my friends. My dad, with tears in his eyes, gave a toast expressing his pride in my accomplishments and his hope that I got as much joy and fulfillment from my career as he got from his. That was a really touching moment for me and it signified a change in the relationship between my dad and I. While we may not have bonded over dance recitals, make-up, boyfriends, and prom dresses, my dad did understand careers, office politics, bosses, raises, evaluations, and work stress. And over the past 8 years, I have loved sharing all the ups and downs of my career with him and knowing he felt each disappointment as strongly as I did, and celebrated each victory as if I had just been named to the Supreme Court! I am so proud the example he set for me and when I struggle with my own work-life balance issues (which is usually on a daily basis!), the one truth that brings me the most comfort is knowing that I am better for seeing my dad try to balance it all and hopefully the same will be true for Olivia. Congratulations daddy and we hope you enjoy retirement!
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